Google “things to do before you die” and you’ll get over four billion hits. Most will involve experiences like “go on an African safari,” “visit the Grand Canyon,” “see a live Broadway show,” “swim with dolphins,” “ride in a hot air balloon,” etc.
One thing you probably won’t see is “get all my affairs in order.” That’s because most of us don’t like to think about our own mortality. But before you take up skydiving or that long ocean cruise, remember the words of Ben Franklin: “In this world, nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.”
That’s not to say you should go around all day with a cloud over your head like Eeyore, but spending some time getting ready is a good idea. Think of it as packing for a long trip … a very long trip.
The number one reason for advanced planning is peace of mind, both for yourself and your loved ones. Unexpected death or disability can lead to hasty decisions and financial conflict within a family. Putting your final wishes down on paper will help your loved ones make difficult decisions according to your wishes.
Your final arrangements document is basically a guide for your estate executor and family to follow. It should familiarize them with existing services that you might have already paid for and prearranged.
There are numerous inexpensive final arrangement planners available online. Generally, they allow you and your loved ones the ability to preplan before the inevitable happens. Most guides use a checklist with a number of categories and here are our top recommendations:
A large part of your life is where and how you would prefer to rest post-mortem. Make sure your final arrangement plan includes:
This comprehensive checklist created by AARP has a full list of steps to complete.
According to Investopedia, in addition to your final arrangements document, you should attach any prepaid funeral arrangements, casket, burial plot and other important documents to help facilitate the process for the person(s) arranging the services. The document should be signed and dated by you; notarization is not necessary as this is not a legal binding document of any sort.
Copies of the document should go to your executor, or the person most likely to handle your final arrangements. A copy should also be stored in a safe place at your home where someone would immediately look in the event of your death (a bank safe-deposit box is not recommended, unless you have named a successor trustee or have the box registered with a co-signer). This information, which accurately reflects your wishes, will be of great comfort to your survivors.
But wait. You’re not done yet. There is another, equally important aspect of making final arrangements – estate planning. Not having an estate plan in place can lead to family disputes, assets going into the wrong hands, long court litigations and huge amounts of dollars spent on federal taxes.
The benefits of estate planning include:
At minimum, you should create a will, power of attorney, healthcare surrogate, and living will document, and assign guardianship for your kids and pets. If you’re married, each spouse should create a separate will with plans for the surviving spouse. Also make sure that all the concerned individuals have copies of these documents:
The value of estate planning extends beyond your stages of life; it’s a solid plan for your legacy. Your loved ones will appreciate your foresight and you’ll have peace of mind knowing that you’re well-prepared for the unforeseen circumstances that you’ll undoubtedly face. The important thing to remember is that age is not a criterion for when you should start final arrangements and estate planning.
If you’re considering your estate plan and unsure where to begin, our professionals can help. With more than 90 years in the financial industry, our family of banks has been here for generations–and more to come. Contact us today to get in touch with one of our trust experts.